Friendship is bad !!!!!!!

[click]

When you have friends they make you do stuff for them .Once you are friends with somebody you're stuck with them even if you absolutely hate each other you can't get rid of them easily because you're friends. You have to fight, argue, cry, bitch and then live through the aftermath of people hating you and gossiping about you all because at one unguarded stage in your life you decided to be friends with somebody.

And what does friendship do for you anyway? I'll tell you what it does - it strips you of your independence. You no longer rely on yourself for comfort, money, fun you rely on friends. Friends force you to cling onto them like a baby unable to face the world alone.

Friends take, take, take. First they invite you out shopping 'ching, ching' all your money's gone. Then movies - you're in debt. If you want friends do one of two things - either marry a millionaire or sell a pound of your flesh because these days its not the thought that counts.




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click@swalif.com

[Timon]

but click..do you believe in this.?
i agree that real friendship is hardly found at this time, but you can't say that all freind around you are only for money .."ching ching"!!! don't you agree?

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Hacuna Matata
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[Timon]

اسمح لي يا أخوي أني رديت بالانجليزي..لأني ما أحب أرد على حد بالأنجليزي...بس المتصحف العربي دوم يعلق عندي فأطر أني استخدم الأنجليزي..."مسابقة : كم مرة قلت كلمة انحليزي http://www.swalif.net/swalif1/ubb/smile.gif؟"
أنا ما أتفق معاك أنه الصداقة صارت للمصلحة و الفلوس ...هو صعب حاليا تلاقي صديق وفي ...بس ما تقدر تعمم هذا الشي على الكل ... الدنيا بعدها بخير

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Hacuna Matata
للمراسلة:
timon@swalif.com

[click]

Timon
انا اتفق معاك تماما
عنوان الموضوع والموضوع نفسه مجرد خواطر متطرفه خطرت على بالي

لكن ليس هناك اروع من المقطع التالي من كتاب "النبي" لجبران خليل جبران يتحدث عن الصداقه:

"And a youth said, Speak to us of Friendship.
And he answered, saying:
Your friend is your needs answered.
He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
And he is your board and your fireside.
For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.

When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the "nay" in your own mind, nor do you withhold the "ay".
And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;
For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unclaimed.
When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.

And let your best be for your friend.
If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know the flood also.
For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
Seek him always with hours to live.
For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed."

[wildorchid]

U said it all Click,
though i believe u were talkin' about a boy/gril friend @ the beginnin'' since women use 'n' abuse men in a relation -= they can't help not loving money=-
but a true friend means the world>>>>>
Money can't buy friends but it can get u a better class of enemy.
* No man is the whole of himself.His friends are the rest of him
* the better mirror is an old friend
http://members.tripod.co.uk/lovingeyes/friends.html



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Nothing like a true friendship